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Understanding her hints: Relationship communications 101

Why men do not understand the hints?

Psychology of female is more complicated than higher mathematics, we think most men would accept this statement. What most men would also accept is that life could be easier if women just directly says, what she wants instead of dropping hints.

Even with a couple who have been in close relationships for years, misunderstandings arise from time to time, especially when a great deal off communication happen over texting. This happens because women like to talk with hints, and men do not recognize them, and this problem causes many quarrels and partings.

So the big question, “Why do not I understand, what she means?”. It is quite likely that you have come across her hints, which you do not notice in principle, with claims that are unreasonable in your opinion.

Why do women express their thoughts and feelings in disguised way?

A man and a woman are supposed to be different in natural order of things, and you need to accept the fact that way of thinking and needs are just as different.

A woman lives in a different world, where exists semitones, emotions, and relationships. She has natural intuition, speaks subtly, elegantly and beautifully with HINTS.

A man does not have such a superpower.

How to understand what a woman really wants from you?

First and foremost, it is necessary to understand why men do not get the hints? The answer is simpler than you think: they do not notice them.

Men and Women are developed to think differently and neurologists have confirmed that neuronal structures in the brains of men and women have a number of differences.

Therefore, we can safely say that women think in different ways.

Women understand emotions better.

According to University of Cambridge test for recognition of emotions, it was found that women identified correctly 88% of emotions, and men – 76%. This clearly explains the fact that women recognize the body language and capture the nuances.

Female think intuitive; male think rational

Women are try to solve a number of problems simultaneously, men tend to concentrate on one or two problems and deal with them only. Also, it is easier for men to abstract from the problem and to look from outside, Women usually understand emotions easier; and are more inclined to empathy and compassion.

For woman, it is important to observe many different moral attitudes – like the rules of politeness imposed by the society.

For example, she really wants flowers, but to say this directly seems unethical to her. What would he think of her? And in general, a man must himself guess that she wants flowers!

Numerous opinions poll of men shows that in relations with women they are most irritated by female habits of talking with hints. For heaven’s sake, men just do not understand them!

Because of the difference in thinking patterns, when chatting with a girl, you get the impression that you speak different languages. Let’s try to understand them!

Before you understand her hints, you need to

Learn to think like a woman, you don’t need to be a woman to do that, just try to get into her shoes a bit. Women generally send signals, you need to pick the subtle hints.

It is easier for you to find key to women hearts and thoughts, to comprehend women psychology and to understand her hints.

Let’s be more precise and understand this closely.

How to get the hints?

Pay attention: Don’t just go for her words, but also her facial expressions, gestures, and eyes. Secondly, you need to practice to catch hints in communication.

Look for gestures: It will be helpful if you want to be aware if she is into you. Some signals that could bring you hope: touching the hair, straightening the clothes, one or both hands on the hips, legs, and body turned towards the man, prolonged intimate gaze, and rapid eye contact.

Typical gestures for women

  • A sharp movement of the head made to throw the hair off the face or from the shoulders to the back. Even women with short hair can use this gesture when they like you.
  • The head tilt to the shoulder also speaks of the interest in you and, in general, of what you say.
  • A woman who is interested in a potential sexual partner may periodically show him the smooth, delicate skin of her wrists. The wrist area has always been considered one of the most erogenous zones when a woman speaks to a man; she tries to hold her hands in his field of vision. The women who smoke have no difficulty in showing this teasing gesture to a man while smoking.
  • Hips swing more than usual to emphasize woman’s beauty and attractiveness.
  • Look at the eye signals: if her pupils are wider than usual, then you are attractive, and she may have sympathy for you. Slightly lowering her eyelids, the woman looks at the man until he notices her gaze, and then quickly looks away. This gives a fascinating sensation of spying and a teasing hint that you are being stealthily sneaked.
  • If the girl you met a glance with looked away confusedly and straightened her back, then she wants to look good in your presence and shows you all her outer beauty.
  • Women use different poses to express their flirtatious, enticing behavior. The first is a bent knee. In this case, the woman sits, bending one leg under the other and directing the tip of her knee on the man she is interested in. This is a very free pose, which excludes all formalities and gives the opportunity to lap the knees coquettishly. Women subconsciously use this pose to attract attention.
  • Women also use other hint baits, such as slowly tossing a leg over the eyes of a man and slowly returning them to a normal posture. The woman speaks in a low deep voice herewith.

This is only one side of the question of how to learn to understand a woman and her hints; nonetheless, it can be very helpful.

You can understand what a woman wants to say, determining it due to the similarity of the tricks of the fair sex.

Some typical hint phrases that men miss:

“Honey, do you love me?”

If she asks you this, it is quite certain that you have missed the ritual of declaration of love for several times.

Correct answer: Tell her how much you love her, how beautiful she is and how happy you are to be with her.

Never say: “I’ve already told you everything a thousand times, stop asking the same thing.”

“Am I fat?”

It is a trick question, which is not just a question, it is a hint for you to compliment her. Also, always be quick to answer the question. Delay in answering could make things complicated.

Correct answer: Tell her that she looks gorgeous.

Never say: “You can’t be called skinny, but it’s not that important” – don’t risk your life!

“I’m cold.”

It is a hint for you to hug her or take her hand.

Correct answer: “Come here, babe, let me warm you up with a hug.”

Never say: “It isn’t so cold, do want jacket or something?”

“Do whatever you want!”

This phrase says that she feels offended.

Correct answer: Learn what she wanted you to do, get to the core of things and understand where it all started.

Never do: Don’t you even think to do – What you want to, avoid a huge scandal.

“Everything is OK.”

You certainly didn’t see something was wrong, when the situation was leading to this.

Correct answer: This answer was a signal to inquire more and show that you are Really care about what is going on in her head.

Never do: Never, move on with things just basis, this confirmation of, “Everything is Ok.” from her.

To avoid any barrier in your relations, try to communicate with her more frequently and give her more attention. Gradually, you will learn to determine all her hints, words and behavior.

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